Monday, September 20, 2010
Cash's 8th Month
- Most of his clothes are in 12 months although he wears some 18 months. He even has a few pajama sets that are 24 months!
- He weighs about 19-20 lbs. I've only measured on my scale at home, so I don't know how accurate it is.
- He started crawling on September 5th (about 7 and 3/4 months old) and is pulling up on EVERYTHING! We love to watch him discover all kinds of new things now that he is mobile. Although I could have lived without him discovering Moe's food and water dishes.
- He started saying "Mama" on September 10th. Sometimes he switches from calling me "Nana" to "Mama" but I've been correcting him after he says "Nana". The first time I heard him say, "Mama" was in his bedroom while Colt was at a gig. I put a Disney movie on in his room, and I was doing chores (in his room) while he was playing in his crib. He kept trying to get my attention, and finally he just said, "Mama". At first I thought it could have been a fluke until he said it again later that night. I can't even describe how happy it makes me to hear him mumble my name all day long.
- It seems that he is beginning to understand what "NO" means (now that I have to say it all the time). It could be the tone of voice, but he definitely pauses and looks at me everytime he hears it.
- He had his first low grade fever, accompanied by a sore throat at the beginning of his 8th month. That was no fun, especially for our sleep schedule, but he's 100% back to normal now...well at least he doesn't have a fever or sore throat anymore.
- His sleep schedule is so weird now. He went from sleeping 8-10 hours a night, straight, to waking up about every 3 hours to comfort nurse. We may try to put him in his crib, but plans for that have been on hold since Colt has been so busy with gigs. Its hard to get a baby on a conventional schedule, when the parents are on an unconventional schedule, but I think we do a pretty good job.
- On that note, he is still sleeping with us, but takes naps in his crib.
- Another problem with the sleeping in his crib thing is that he is going through a BIG attachment phase. Sometimes he'll just fuss unless I am holding him. I could be sitting right next to him, but unless he is in my lap, he isn't happy. I LOVE that he loves me, but I'm trying to train him to be able to self-soothe.
- I love this story...My parents, and Emilee babysat for us so that we could go to the Tom Petty concert after Colt played before the show. They tried to give him formula for the first time in several months. Immediately upon sticking the bottle in his mouth, he wiggled, spit it out and said, "NANA...MAMA!" My mom said he was looking all over for me. I just love love love that story.
- He eats so much! He is eating 3 solid meals a day, and sometimes he'll eat a whole jar of oatmeal or mixed grains right after a solid feeding. I haven't dropped any breast feedings either!
- He loves books. He may even love books more than his other toys! He's really into colors, sounds and lights.
- He loves the guitar and music in general. When we went to see Colt play before the Tom Petty show, Cash was waving his hands to the beat! Its really weird, but he does that almost all the time.
- He's started to "sing". We were at my brother's soccer game when my mom started singing to him. He started "singing" back in response to her song. Now he does it in his car seat sometimes when we're listening to the radio. One of his favorites is "Red Cord" on my Uncle Josh's new CD, "Seven Years of Lean".
- He bit Michelle Mitchell at church twice while we were in the nursery. I hope that he doesn't make that a permanent thing. Haha!
- Cash has discovered the joys of having a brother...a canine brother at least. He loves to play with Moe. His favorite game is fetch, when we throw Moe's duck toy across the house and he runs back to us with it. Cash just about crawls out of our arms with excitement when Moe brings it back.
- He is allergic to cow's milk. We discovered this after seeing little red spots appear around his mouth after letting him taste some of my ice cream one night. It happened again after tasting some whipped cream off of my fruit dessert at Matt and L'Von Qualls' home one night. We confirmed that it was a milk allergy after he had one of the yogurt bites for babies, and his mouth broke out in the semi-swollen, spots. They say milk allergies usually fade. Hopefully that's true.
- We also think he is left handed. He picks up everything with his left hand. If I hand him something, he'll always take it with his left hand.
- I really wish I could videotape him all day long because he does something cute nearly every minute. I did catch his first laugh on tape, as well as his first time crawling. The gazillions of pictures will have to be sufficient for the rest. :)
We are already half way through the 8th month. He is the most handsome, smart and fun loving little boy. Everything I ever dreamed of. Love Love Love him.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Not That I Believe In Horoscopes...
For example, the day we found out we were having a boy. We knew if it was a boy that we would name him Cash. We went in to the ultrasound tech's office, not expecting to find out the gender that early. I was only 13 1/2 weeks along. Early or not, we knew. Later that day, by chance I heard my horoscope. It went something like, "Today will be full of surprises. Strangers may give you unexpected gifts. Someone may even give you CASH!" Weird, huh?!?
Tonight I was perusing my favorite baby website, babycenter.com, and I saw a link to parent/child and parent/parent compatibility by horoscopes. I opened it and read it for fun. I entered Colt and I's birthday in the blanks, and here are the results... "Your family life could resemble one long freewheeling adventure, at least if you two have your say about it! Together, you'll value education, curiosity, learning, and personal freedom. You wouldn't want your kids to be tied down, ordered around or restricted any more than you'd sign up for it yourselves. This unconventional attitude can lead to a rather loud, messy and fun-loving household--not that you care what anyone else thinks!" WEIRD HUH!?! Not that I agree with everything about that statement, but I thought it described our lifestyle pretty well.
Again, not that I think there is any truth behind horoscopes, but sometimes they are good for a laugh!
Saturday, August 21, 2010
At 7 Months...
- Cash is scooting all over the place. Its not technically crawling, but its definitely an army crawl.
- He's eating solid foods two times a day, and now loves thick rice cereal, mixed grains and oatmeal.
- He is still sleeping in our bed. If he wakes up in the middle of the night, and I am not right next to him, he'll pull himself over to me using the sheets, and curl up beside me.
- He can sit up completely by himself, and has really good posture.
- He LOVES books, colors, and sounds.
- He loves to listen to Colt play the guitar, and squeals with excitement when he sees it.
- As of today (7 months, 2 weeks-ish) he has two teeth
- He is around 19 or 20 lbs, but I don't know how long he is, although we get comments on how "tall" he is all the time.
- He is still the most laid back baby I've ever seen. My Aunt Paige calls him "Chill".
- We have so many nicknames for him! We call him, Cashy, Cashman, Scooter, Sweetieface, Gooey, and most recently Scratch...explanation to follow
- Cash likes to scratch everything so he can feel the material. I also thinks he likes the noise it makes. In church, he'll turn around and scratch the pew.
- He is very well behaved in church, and has never pitched a fit. I've only taken him out once, and still everyone around me said they didn't hear him make a peep!
- He is still breastfeeding, although he has gone from 10 minutes on each side when he was a newborn, to about 3 minutes on each side now. Sometimes its more, sometimes less!
- He has grown out of all of his size 2 shoes and wears some 6-9 clothes, but mostly 12 months because he is so tall.
- He LOVES Moe, and is becoming very "hands on" with him.
- He stood on all fours last night for the first time in his pack-n-play (August 21st). He attempted to crawl but the netting on the sides prevented him from going anywhere.
- He can go from a lay down position to sitting up on his bottom.
- Cash has the most facial expressions I've ever seen in a baby. He makes the funniest faces sometimes.
- He is very calm and quiet when we're around people, but loud, and jolly at home! He squeals with excitement all the time, and it will burst your ear drum if you're not ready for it. When he's at home with Mama and Daddy, there is hardly a minute that goes by that he isn't smiling. Literally!
- He loves to laugh, therefore, LOVES being tickled. His sides, the middle of his back, and under his arms are the most ticklish spots.
- He makes Colt and I SO happy, and we both get choked up seemingly on a daily basis by how much we're in love with him.
I think that's about it for now. I wish you all could see my "posts to be posted" box. I start so many new posts and never get a chance to finish them. September is a busy month for Colt's gig schedule, and August was a busy month for my photography business. We have been very blessed with a lot of work lately! We're so thankful that we can spend so much time with each other and really enjoy this time with your baby together. Seven months has been the most fun so far, with all the new things he's learning and how fast he's growing. Thanks to everyone for reading, my very sporadic posts! Love you all!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Happy Half-Year Cash!
At 6 months, our daily schedule is still different than most people. We still sleep weird hours, but it works for us. Colt and I have a 2am "rummy date" every night during one of Cash's "naps". He usually wakes up during this time and watches us finish our game. Below is a picture of this.
He seems to enjoy this, and we have named him all time score keeper. :) After rummy, we'll start to settle down. We're usually in bed by 4am so we can watch America's Funniest Home Videos. We try to go to sleep by 5 but sometimes (most of the time) we're snoozing by 6. Cash still sleeps next to me. Our bed is his favorite place in the house. Even when he is awake, he loves to play on it. When I lay him down, he thrashes around with excitement, and makes "snow angels" in the down comforter. He'll probably never sleep in his crib. Maybe the next baby will. Haha! I give up...I guess you can call us a co-sleeping family. We love it. He is a very happy and smiley baby. He really loves books, colors, and babbling. He is starting to scoot all over the place which makes me think he'll start crawling soon. He can sit up unassisted for several seconds before falling over and he can roll over from back to front (learned this first) and front to back also. Moe LOVES him and licks his face often. Cash can hold small objects and has almost mastered taking out and putting his pacifier back in his mouth. He LOVES his sippy cup and has almost mastered tipping it up to his mouth. We've started Stage 2 foods, and he's in Stage 3 diapers. He fits into most 6-9 month clothes, but is also wearing some 12 and 18 month clothes! A while back I reported that he could say "Mama" although not in reference to me. I haven't heard him say it near as much since he discovered how to say "DADA!" He says that all the time! He is one of the most loving, cuddly and sweet natured babies I have ever seen. Colt and I were laying in bed, staring at him last night, talking about how blessed we are to have him. The second baby is going to have a lot to live up to! We have so many dreams for Cash. I pray every night that he will become a good, strong, Christian man.
Like I said, 6 months is such a fun stage. He can do so many new things. It seems like he's doing something new everyday! My sweet little baby that was once content sleeping in my lap now loves to climb up my body, give me kisses on my face and rub my cheeks. Although, he still enjoys sleeping in my arms. :) He loves when we make funny noises. For some reason, he thought the word, "Speedo" was funny when he heard it on Jeopardy as one of the answers. He laughed so hard, and we had no idea what he was laughing at until Colt repeated it, and he started laughing again. Speedo has now been adopted as on of his nicknames. Poor kid...he'll probably never learn his real name!
In other news, I have been having some very vivid dreams lately. Most of them have been related to pregnancy or birth. I have been so excited for our friends Richard and Ashley Smotherman, and the upcoming birth of their baby. I dreamed about it last night! I also had a weird dream about the birth of our second child (and no there is no second child yet). In my dream, I was pregnant, and visiting my doctor for a checkup. She pushed down on my tummy, to help jump start labor, and I immediately started having contractions. I got up to walk to the bathroom, and there he came! He fell out! Haha! It was a boy. I yelled for someone to help me and cut the umbilical cord. When I finally got a good look at him he looked like Colt and Cash. He had Colt's nose (everyone says that Cash has my nose), and a lot of hair, like Cash did. The weirdest part was that I checked my phone in my dream to see what the date was, and it was February 6th. Wouldn't that be crazy if I had our next child on February 6th (not next February of course). In my dream Cash was toddling around the hospital room, trying to get a good look at the baby. It was a lovely dream BUT my dad always says that my dream stories are long and boring, so I digress. :)
My photography business has really started to boom! I made a website. Its http://www.aubreeclarkphotography.com/, just in case I haven't linked to it before. I'm really enjoying being able to do photo shoots when I want to and still be home with Colt and Cash. Its the best of both worlds. Colt and I were talking the other day about how much we have to be thankful for. He and I are both able to do what we are passionate about, him with his music and me with writing and photography. We both get to stay home with our son, and raise him together. We both prayed that we would find the right man/woman to marry. We did, and have been blissfully happy these past 3 years. We prayed for a healthy baby, and we not only got a healthy baby, but the most adorable, sweet natured and cuddly baby in the world. We have a wonderful family, who we sincerely enjoy spending time with. God has really blessed us, and I am careful not to take any of it for granted.
Well I guess I better go for now. I'm hoping to take Cash's 6 month pictures at some point this week. For now, time for some coffee and Deadliest Catch on DVR. Thanks for reading!
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Happy Father's Day!
Its Father's Day today! I'm so thankful to have a wonderful father, and a wonderful husband, who is a wonderful father. Wonderful! :) We went to Outback this afternoon after church to celebrate. Colt and I aren't big of gift giving, so I just got him a card. In Colt's Father's Day card, I wrote about how a woman never really knows what kind of father her husband will be until they have a child. You may think that your husband will make a great father one day, which I always did, but I have been so blessed to see Colt play such a hands on role with Cash. Having Cash has made him even more patient, loving and kind. He loves watching Cash reach his milestones. He takes pride in Cash's sweet and happy demeanor. He truly is everything I could have wished for a father to be to my children.
In less mushy, and more self-centered, "Aubree" related news, as I said, I've been a busy bee. I've had a few photo shoots in the last few weeks, which I always look forward too. I'm always excited for clients to see the photos I've taken, and choose their selections so I can start the editing process. It sounds weird, but I love that I love photography. Its an interest that I've only really delved into in the last few years, but I enjoy it so much. Not only taking pictures, but looking at other people's pictures, amateurs and professionals alike! Not only have I been busy with photography, but I've also started writing articles for Associated Content. Most of them are baby related...obviously. Its not a ton of extra money, but the website does pay for the articles. Its at least a dinner out here and there! I've always considered myself to have pretty good grammar, but after writing these articles, I've realized that I've forgotten so many rules. Great...now you're probably checking this post for all of my my mistakes. You guys can overlook my grammatical errors but Associated Content will not, so I have to proofread a few times. I will include a link to my latest article at the bottom of this post.
This week we had Matthew and Meredith Evans over for dinner. As I'm not used to cooking for more than just the two of us, I made spaghetti which is fairly foolproof. We had a great time talking and comparing interests. Colt played at their wedding in December. We also had a visit from my cousin Jason, who has just returned from Iraq. We are so thankful that he returned home safely. He brought Cash the cutest little Rays t-shirt and onesie with a Rays bib. I can't wait for the next home game so Cash can rock his t-shirt. He also brought a very special gift from my Aunt Val, his mother. She made Cash a beautiful blanket that has a big sun, and a sand bucket in the bottom corner. The top of the sand bucket is made out of three neckties, one from Colt's father, one from my father, Cole, who passed away when I was two, and one from my father now. I love it so much. I have it hanging on Cash's crib. I will cherish that blanket forever.
In baby related news, Cash is saying, "DaDa" now! He started saying it this weekend, which is ironically Father's Day weekend. He rolls over from back to front like a mad man, but has only rolled over belly to back on three occasions, and they were all pretty much flukes. Still breastfeeding and eating his baby food. He is getting pretty good at using his sippy cup and he's really into holding things now. He loves to hold our cell phones and tries to grab everything off the table when we eat dinner at a restaurant. The days of him sitting quietly in his carrier are gone, but I don't plan on giving up our dinners out. I'm just going to have to teach him how to behave at a restaurant. It will be easier when he can sit up completely on his own and we can put him in a high chair. He is still drooling and biting everything which makes me think that a tooth is on its way, but still no sign of it yet from what I can feel. I'm not sure how much he weighs or how long he is. He's wearing 6-9 month clothes and can even fit into some 12 month shirts!
I guess my pregnancy hormones must be wearing off because my hair is falling out like crazy! I heard this would happen, but I kind of hoped I'd be the person that this awful plague would magically skip over. Nope! Along with the hair loss, my skin is breaking out like crazy! I guess its hormones, because I've never broken out on my cheeks and that seems to be where its the worst. I'm normally a t-zone breaker outer. Ha! I was laughing about these horrid hormones today in the car. I told Colt that I was going to be bald and have acne! HAHAHA! Colt said, "Its ok, I'll just introduce you to people as James Carville...This is my wife, the ragin' cajun!" HAHAHAHA! Thankfully I have a good sense of humor.
Well I think that's it for now. Cash is stirring around in his bed. Time to eat! I'm working on another "I Just Want You To Know" post. No I haven't forgotten. Just trying to think of what I want to say. Stay tuned! Thanks for reading!
Here is a link to my article for Associated Content: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/5477034/a_guide_to_baby_products_mothers_dont.html?cat=25
Thursday, June 3, 2010
20 Weeks: The Family Man
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Saying Mama & Seeing Mia (and Dylan): 17 weeks
Cash is now 17 weeks, which means he's officially 4 months old! BLOWS-MY-MIND! Sometimes it seems like he's a completely different baby than he was when we brought him home from the hospital.
Physical: At his 4 month doctors appointment, he weighed 15 1/2 lbs., was 26 inches long, and his head circumference was 17.2. He's about 50th-75th percentile for weight, 75th for height, and 90th for head circumference! Colt and I both have big heads, so that was no surprise. Haha! He's getting much better with tummy time. In fact, he pushes himself up with his arms, so he's almost always looking around when he's on his belly. No more sobbing into the blanket! :) His back, arms and legs are really strong now. He loves standing on his legs and will even take a few steps while holding on to my hands. He tries to sit up by himself all the time. When he's laying on his back, he'll try to flex his abs to sit up and look around. He can't quite make it up yet, but I think the days when he can sit up on his own are fast approaching. He had his second round of shots at his 4 month doctor appointment as well. Unlike the first round, these made him pretty fussy for the rest of the day. He only cried for literally about a second after the shot, but was kind of out of it all day afterward. He didn't get a fever per se, but it got up to about 98.6, which is a little bit higher than normal. Also, we've been battling thrush these past two weeks. I noticed it on his tongue really early, so it was just in the beginning stages. For those of you who don't know, thrush is a yeast infection type thing in the mouth. It sounds disgusting, but its really not. No one notices it unless I show them. Anyway, he was prescribed Nystatin, and that helped temporarily but it came back. Now he is on Diflucan (or whatever the baby form of Diflucan is) and its helping a lot. The only thing that stinks is that I have to put it on myself topically because I'm nursing, and its really sticky. I'm sure it will clear up soon. My mom said I used to get it when I was a baby, and its not serious at all. Lastly, he's in 6 month clothes almost everywhere (sometimes 3 or 3-6 depending on where you go) and size 2 shoes. Our little man is getting big!
Sleeping Habits: The only thing that is consistent is inconsistency. It works for us. Some nights I'll get 3 or 4 hours at a time, and some nights I'll get 8 or 9. I usually average about 4 to 6 before he wakes up for a feeding. I've decided I'm not going to put him in his room until he's consistently sleeping through the night. If his room was right next to mine, I would try to get him to sleep in there, but its all the way across the house. Colt and I both like having that time with him, watching him talk to the TV, play in the sheets, or even just sleep. He falls asleep cuddled up next to me almost every night, but I try to get him in his cradle half way through the night. I've heard every reason for why he needs to be in his crib by now, but honestly, I know when he's all grown up, I'll remember the nights that he slept beside me, and look back on this time with fond memories. He takes naps in his crib, although they don't last very long. He sleeps better in my arms, in his car seat (when we're in the car) or in his cradle. He still makes a lot of funny faces in his sleep, and smiles a lot, although not as much as when he was fresh from the hospital.
Eating Habits: Cash tried sweet potatoes and rice cereal for the first time these past two weeks. I know starting him on vegetables and fruits usually comes AFTER the rice cereal, but we seem to be slipping into a pattern of unconventionality. He's eating solids (Stage One Gerber foods), once a day, and its usually half a container, although sometimes he'll take 3/4 of one. He's mainly breastfeeding, and having a formula or breast milk bottle maybe once every two weeks.
Milestones: He had his first "real" laugh on April 27th caused by the noise that a Target wipe bag made. He thought it was hilarious! He is sucking his thumb, hand, and fingers more often. Although he still likes his pacifier, he'll spit it out at times just to suck on his hand. I think he's beginning to teethe! LAST BUT NOT LEAST is my favorite milestone this week...Cash said, "Mama!" On May 15th! He was sitting in his swing while I was putting on my makeup, and he started to fuss because he wanted to get out. He looked right at me and said, "MAMA". At first I thought it was a fluke, until he said it again a few seconds later. I know at this age, he doesn't know that's what he's supposed to call me, but he's able to make the "Ma" sound now, so its my job to point to myself when he says it so he'll get the idea. I love hearing him say it though.
His Favorites: He loves mirrors, his lion stuffed animal with the toys on the paws "Lionel", and his toy dog "Rolph". He's also really into colors, things that make noise, different patterns, and brightly colored clothing.
Personality: Cash really is the happiest, most laid back, content, and easy to please, baby I've ever seen. He's really playful and babbles ALL THE TIME! Especially when his hand is in his mouth. He falls asleep easily when he's held. He really has been a dream baby. Don't hate...I'll probably have a little troublemaker for my next one.
Nicknames: Colt calls him "Goo" or "Gooey" because Cash says that all day long. Colt even signed my Mother's Day Card from Cash, "I Love You - Gooey". We both call him Cashy, Cashman, or Sweetieface. I still call him "my love" most of the time.
New to this Week (or last few weeks): We've had two birthday parties in the last few weeks. One was Miss Mia Ciampa's first birthday, and the other was Miss Ashlyn Clark's first birthday! We had a great time at both. It was my first child birthday party that I attended with a child of my own in tow. We had a great time. Colt and I are thoroughly enjoying being in the "parent club" now. Speaking of the "parent club", Colt, Cash and I met some fellow parents and their babies at Wiregrass for a lovely evening last Monday night. We met Trey, Jamie and Dylan Keller ad Greg, Megan and Mia Ciampa for some dinner at Cantina Loredo and a stroll around the mall. It was so much fun to get together with couples our own age with children. You should have seen us at the restaurant with our strollers, diaper bags, and baby toys littering the ground and table. We had a blast! We all agreed that Trey and Jamie need to move closer so Dylan can grow up with Cash and Mia.
Goal for this week: My goal for this week, and the next few weeks is to lose 10 to 15 lbs. I've lost all of my baby weight as of last week, but I would like to lose a little bit more. Before I got pregnant, I had gained about 10-15 lbs. due to hormones related to some cysts on my ovaries (and my lack of motivation to keep the weight off). When I got home from the hospital after having Cash, I had only lost about 10lbs. At my first checkup after the baby, a week after he was born, I had lost 20 lbs.! I had only gained about 29 or 30 in my pregnancy. At that point I only had about 9 or 10 lbs. to lose. I've had no motivation to lose the weight. I wanted to lose it, but I didn't want to TRY to lose it like I needed to. Haha! I've had about 3 lbs. to lose for 3 months and I've just recently lost it. NOW my goal is to lose the 10-15lbs. I gained before my pregnancy. I want my Aunt Heather to take some family pictures of Colt, Cash and I when they're down for my brother's graduation, and I DON'T want to look fat! Anyhoo, that's my goal. Will it happen...doubtful!
So that's what's been going on. I hope you enjoyed reading my everlasting blogstopper. :) Thanks for reading!
